Everybody is racist? Not me, you might say. I would argue
that being non-racist isn’t even really possible. Our brains work in ways that
lead to stereotypes, generalizations, and racist assumptions. Ouch!
Race is of course a huge subject in South Africa. We’re all
aware of apartheid and its horrors. The first majority government, with Nelson
Mandela as President, was elected in April 1994. So, was that an end to racism?
Hardly!
Racism comes in many different forms. Sometimes it's
subtle, and sometimes it's overt. Sometimes it's violent, and sometimes it's
harmless, but it's definitely here. It's something that I think we're all
guilty of, and we just have to make sure that we deal with our own personal
racism in the right way. (Jordan Peele)
What is racism exactly? The short OED definition, which I
would argue is too narrow, is “prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism
directed against someone of a different race based on the belief that one's own
race is superior”. I don’t believe that anyone else’s race is inferior to mine.
Not rationally anyway. But in my first thought of someone, my first reaction to
them, my preferences, my biases – I’m not so sure.
Meeting so many people of different races in South Africa
brought this home to me. It wasn’t that I didn’t like them, or thought them
inferior, or less intelligent or anything like that. But the differences are
real and I reacted to them in (to me) surprising ways. Have you ever caught
yourself seeing someone with a different skin color for the first time and
assuming something about their education level, abilities, sense of rhythm,
athleticism, wealth, or anything else?
Actually, it isn’t surprising. Sociologists and psychologists
generally agree that our reactions are formed by our environment, especially
our upbringing. If our parents and our peers make assumptions that are based on
race, then we will tend to adopt those assumptions, quite unconsciously. We
generalize – that is we apply previous experiences and learnings to new
situations, and make initial assumptions and judgments based on these generalizations.
Only when we really get to know someone do we get past these initial summary judgments
and focus on the specific – the specific person whose skin color has become
simply one of their beautifully unique characteristics.
My first full day in Cape Town I met a wonderful young man
called Tsepo. His mother is Swazi and his father is Sotho, and he grew up on a
farm in Kwa-Zulu Natal. After a career in animal protection (park ranger, etc)
was cut short by injury, he found himself leading walking tours in Cape Town. I
found myself surprised that he knew so much history, zoology, culture and politics.
Why would I have been surprised? Because my upbringing and experiences led me
to assume a lower level of education for someone with a black skin. Isn’t that
racism in a more general sense?
A couple of books have impacted me on this too. The first,
which I read before I went to South Africa, is called “My Traitor’s Heart” by a
journalist named Dawid Malan. He is a descendant of two of the key creators and
instigators of apartheid. But he rebelled against his family’s prejudices and
worked tirelessly against apartheid and for the protection of oppressed black
Africans. A theme throughout the book, though, is his awareness of his own
subtle racism and how difficult it is to shed the stereotypes and assumptions
of his youth.
Another, read after I returned, is Trevor Noah’s “Born a
Crime”. If you’re familiar with Trevor Noah’s stand-up comedy, you’ll know what
to expect. Either way I thoroughly recommend this book, which is very informative
and alternates horror and humor in a way only Noah could pull off. He talks
about the complexities of race and racism from a very personal perspective. He
is not black because his father is white. He is not white because his mother is
black. He is not colored because he isn’t descended from the original Cape
Coloreds or other long-standing racial intermarriage. He is mixed-race, which
is to say he is nothing specific. He experiences racial assumptions and prejudice
and discrimination from all sides. Definitely worth a read!
So what can we do about the fact that in some sense at least
we are all racist?
- We can recognize that our human brains use generalization
to create our first reactions to new people. We can catch ourselves making
assumptions that are unjustified, simplistic or just plain wrong.
- We can focus on getting to know an individual
person before deciding or judging what kind of person they are. If we’re not in
a position to know someone well enough to see them as unique creations, loved
and valued by God, then we need to suspend judgment altogether.
- We can teach our children to see people the way God sees them. Each person is a uniquely crafted masterpiece, made in God’s own image, and every bit as valuable as we are. Of course, to teach it, we have to model it. Words are cheap, consistent actions not so much! By the power of the Holy Spirit in us, it is possible to treat people as Jesus did – regardless of race, social-economic standing, etc.
We must treat the disease of racism. This means we must
understand the disease .(Sargent Shriver)
I visited South Africa for many reasons. Understanding a
little more about race was one of them. I learned a lot about myself that I
didn’t want to know, but that’s the nature of growth. Mostly I learned more
about how much I don’t understand. There is so much more to learn, and so many
more adventures to have in the process!










